{"id":1080,"date":"2008-01-31T16:13:08","date_gmt":"2008-01-31T15:13:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mindwork.net\/myblog\/?p=1080"},"modified":"2008-01-31T16:13:08","modified_gmt":"2008-01-31T15:13:08","slug":"where-have-all-the-friendly-people-gone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindwork.net\/myblog\/?p=1080","title":{"rendered":"where have all the friendly people gone?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>astrid and me had a day off &#8211; which we, quite frankly, needed. a long list of things to be done had piled up. so we started at the taxation office where i got the code to do my tax declaration online. the lady behind the counter was ok, though mechanical in a way &#8211; well she works in the taxation office, what can you expect, right? stop number two &#8211; my car dealer, i had forgotten to pay a bill (36 euro). the lady was really friendly, i even got a chocolate bar. though i got a little suspicious because back in the days when i drove my beloved skoda i never got a chocolate bar, and yes, it was from the same dealer. learning: driving an audi instead of a skoda gets you a chocolate bar. next stop: a coffee place near the university. bad bad bad experience. the waitress: unfriendly, uninterested, uninspired. i know it&#8217;s a hard job, but the way she waited us made us feel more as a disturbance to whatever business she had on her mind. the place was full of smoke &#8211; and i know i am pretty militant about smoke, but in the end i asked her if the air condition wasn&#8217;t working and her reply was &#8220;if you would have told me, i would have turned it on&#8221;. learning: when i go to a coffee place, restaurant there&#8217;s a couple of things i have to bring my checklist: (heating? check, running water? check, air condition? check). last stop &#8211; a sports store. since my old nike sneaker slowly started to smell like someone (or something) had died in them, i went for new ones. i tried exactly one pair whcih perfectly fit. in the 2-3 minutes it took me to decide, mr. shoeseller didn&#8217;t look bored, he didn&#8217;t look tired. he more looked like someone who&#8217;d rather commit suicide then serve one more customer. it might have been the day or an unfortunate chain of events &#8211; but in the end i kind of thought to myself &#8211; where have all the friendly people gone? people that show passion for what they do? happy people with jobs, people on a mission, people loving working, caring, serving, teaching, telling, talking with\/to other people, their customers, friends, partners? whatever happens tomorrow, i will be friendly to whomever i meet &#8211; i won&#8217;t let the world get away with this one. will you join me in making tomorrow a happy day?<\/p>\n<p>i believe.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>astrid and me had a day off &#8211; which we, quite frankly, needed. a long list of things to be done had piled up. so we started at the taxation office where i got the code to do my tax declaration online. the lady behind the counter was ok, though mechanical in a way &#8211;&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1080","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-miracle-drug"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindwork.net\/myblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1080","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindwork.net\/myblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindwork.net\/myblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindwork.net\/myblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindwork.net\/myblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1080"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mindwork.net\/myblog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1080\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindwork.net\/myblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1080"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindwork.net\/myblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1080"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindwork.net\/myblog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1080"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}