i sometimes wonder why i am so easy to hurt. the past four or five weeks at work were hard and still i felt good about what we did, because we were a great group working together, spirit and weird songs on youtube included. but that was in graz. not that i feel bad back here in klagenfurt. it’s just a different general feeling – like i have to stand on guard all the time. there’s those little things that irritate me: people (actually one person) not even saying hello when i drop by the office, pretending to not notice i am there. i know you can’t always choose on whom you work with. but neither can i ignore it. funny enough i am good at managing complex scenarios, private and professional. but if someone just behaves boldly unfriendly or stupid towards me, it simply blows me off my feet. darn, i would be a bad interrogator.
i believe.
you cannot like or be liked by everybody you meet along the way. but a certain amount of respect is important as it is what makes our society work. apparently some people have lost that sense for respectful behaviour.
Well, I met similar colleague last Friday. And there are always person like that. What I found is ‘happy people don’t behave like that’. In some sense they are not happy, so there is no other way around except their unhappiness like that kind of unfriendly way. It’s a bit pathetic for them. So no need to be hurt. Just they are unhappy people.